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ciaossu-imagines · 2 months ago

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Sorry this doesnt use any of the event prompts but how do the Vongola tenth guardians and tsuna handle their Significant Other having a bad panic attack?

It’s completely fine that this doesn’t use any of the event prompts 😊 As mentioned, even when the event is ongoing, I’m taking regular requests as well! Thanks for sending in something and I hope you’ll enjoy the headcanons!

Tsuna

I’ve said it several times, but I do think that, when it comes to his romantic partners, Tsuna is very attentive and observant. He’s noticed that his partner seems more stressed than normal. He’s noticed that their emotions seem to be running higher than normal. He’s noticed all those things and he has tried to help in whatever ways he can. He does try to do little things to cheer them up or to take extra stress off them. He makes it clear that he’s there if they need to talk and he’s probably listened to them vent a little. He tries to be sympathetic and he tries to give advice. However, he’s also not going to push them too hard to talk to him and he won’t push them to open up to him. He doesn’t want to add to their stress by making them feel like he’s pressuring them.

He’s also noticed that no matter what he does, it doesn’t really seem to help his partner. They still seem stressed, sad, upset, whatever little bits of behaviour his partner shows before they get to the point where they’re liable to break down or have a panic attack (something that is a little different for everyone, so I don’t want to go too hyper specific here). Tsuna is quick to notice and internalize the fact that, no matter how hard he tries, he can’t really seem to help his partner. Tsuna is someone who does have the tendency to take the weight or responsibility for other’s feelings onto his shoulders, especially those who are really close to him. Because of this, he’s carrying some guilt already for not being able to do enough for them.

So, when Tsuna walks in on his partner having a panic attack or when, during a seemingly normal day, they just kind of melt down beside him and go into full-blown panic attack mode, he’s definitely taking it really hard. There is that slightly selfish part of Tsuna that makes his partner’s panic attack all about him. He doesn’t make it super obvious in the moment, when he’s more focused on his partner, but he definitely does blame himself for his partner getting to that point. He should have pushed them harder to talk to them. He should have done more for them. He should have found a solution to all his partner’s problems. Even if it’s completely unreasonable for him to think this way, he does. Once his partner is calmed down, and in the days after their panic attack, Tsuna is likely to apologize to them several dozen times for just not being enough or for anything he might have done to cause their panic attack.

In the moment of the actual panic attack though, Tsuna does try his best. He’s low-key panicking himself because he doesn’t know what to do. He’s scared of making things worse and it’s killing him to see his partner in such a state. Any time his partner cries hurts Tsuna, but this especially does, where they sound like nothing in the world could ever be okay again. Tsuna is so out of his depth.

I think, in the moment where his partner is having that panic attack, Tsuna tries to establish some sort of physical touch or affection. He hopes that will make his partner feel loved or soothed. So, he’ll hug them, hold their hands. He’ll keep asking his partner what’s wrong and, since they seem to be having breathing, he’s encouraging them to breathe. Deep breaths, in and out, right? He’s telling them to calm down, that everything is okay. He knows his words aren’t the right ones, but he doesn’t know the right words so he can only say these false platitudes and super generic things.

Once his partner is calmed down enough that they seem to be breathing okay and their tears have either dried up or calmed down to the point where they’re mostly silently calming, Tsuna just focuses on getting his partner out of public and back home, should they have been out together when the panic attack happened. He wants them to be in a place that is the most comfortable for them. If Tsuna was visiting his partner when their panic attack happened, he’s excusing himself. He figures that they probably need some time alone after something that seemed so exhausting. He’s making sure they’re comfortable and as well taken care of as he can and he assures them that he cares about them. He lets them know he’ll check on them the next day and to call him if they need anything at all from him.

Gokudera

The thing about Gokudera, within a romantic relationship, is that he tends to be kind of more reactive to his partner’s emotions. He’s still observant enough to notice them and he does genuinely care about his partner’s feelings and wellbeing, but he’s very strongly influenced by his partner’s emotions as well. If his partner is really stressed and emotional, especially emotional in that they’re dealing with a lot of negative way, that influences Gokudera’s own emotions. He wants to help his partner out and he wants to be there for them, he wants to be strong for them, but their sadness, their frustration, their negativity is reflecting and bouncing back off of him. In some ways, it’s made even worse by the fact that Gokudera will feel a little impotent in some ways. He prides himself on being strong enough to keep his partner safe and happy. He prides himself on being good enough for them and his partner’s constant negativity or sadness makes him feel like he’s failing. That gets his own hackles up and he’s likely to reply to his partner��s big emotions with anger, frustration, and sharpness. It’s not that he’s not trying or that he wants to behave that way, but his own emotions are hard for him to handle and he finds his temper hard to handle even at the best of times.

Both Gokudera and his partner are feeling a lot of strain within their romantic relationship during this period of time. Things are tense between them, they’re not connecting well, there’s a lot of bickering. They both still really love each other and they’re both trying hard to be better for each other, but that tension is high and that strain is felt distinctly by the both of them. All that tension and worry around their romantic relationship probably actually pushes Gokudera’s partner even further towards complete breakdown and helps push them into small panic attacks on their own time.

Eventually something breaks and it’s during one of those bickering sessions that Gokudera’s partner just goes full spiral into a bad panic attack. It’s severe and all consuming. They feel like they can’t breathe…it’s like an elephant is sitting on their chest. Their head is swimming. They’re feeling so much but they can’t think of any words to express any of them. They don’t know what to say and that’s frustrating. They’re crying hard enough to physically hurt and on top of all that, there’s this overwhelming, pure, terrifying fear that’s consuming their mind.

Honestly, Gokudera doesn’t deal with this the best internally. There’s some resentment on his part. He feels a little manipulated by his partner, like they’re weaponizing their feelings against him in the moment and in the aftermath, that is going to be something him and his partner will have to work out.

In the moment, how Gokudera deals with his partner’s panic attack will come across as quite harsh. He has a very tough love approach in this situation, where he does love his partner but he really needs them to calm down and get control of themselves so that things can be handled and solved. He’s going to make them sit down if they weren’t already. He will hold them down if need be. He’s making them focus on him. If they can’t meet his eyes, that’s okay, but they need to listen to him. He’s going to walk them through deep breaths to pull them out of their hyperventilating. “Yeah, that’s it. In…and…out. You got it. Just keep breathing. You’re okay, you’re safe, there’s nothing to be scared of.” He’ll wait until his partner is breathing right and they’re mostly quiet, their tears mostly dried. He’ll get them Kleenexes and a cup of water, keep a careful eye on them until they seem okay. When they do seem okay, he’s going to ask plain out if there’s anything else they need. He needs simple, clear instructions on what they need from him. He doesn’t want to discuss the panic attack, he doesn’t want to get into the emotions on either his or his partner’s part, not right then. He wants clear, actionable things to focus on in that moment. Once he’s satisfied all those clear and actionable moments, he will make sure his partner is comfortable and settled and then he will leave. He needs time to himself and space to get his own emotions under control and figured out.

In some ways, Gokudera does have a really healthy approach to this. He can and will draw healthy boundaries in that he realizes and makes clear to his partner that he is not their therapist. He’s not their mental health counselor. He’s not in charge of or responsible for managing their emotions, their panic attacks, or their mental breakdowns and it’s unreasonable for them to expect that of them. He gets that they have mental health issues but he expects them to be responsible for their own shit. He loves them, but if they want the relationship to continue, they need to start therapy, they need to work on their mental health, they need to learn proper coping mechanisms, and they can’t just melt down on him like that.

Yamamoto

Despite coming across as a little bit of an airhead at times, Yamamoto is surprisingly perceptive. He knows that his partner has a lot going on and that they’re not doing as well as they pretend they are. Even though his partner is likely putting on a really good face in front of him, smiling and pretending nothing is wrong, he knows it’s not entirely true. But he figures his partner is hiding it for a reason and that they’re just not ready to talk about it with him. He sees no point in pushing them to come out with it, not when they simply seem stressed or a little despondent. He trusts that they’ll talk to him if things are really bad, especially since he’s always been a good partner to them and has demonstrated time and time again that he’s a safe place for them and someone they can trust.

So, while it’s definitely going to shock him in the moment, it’s not completely and utterly unexpected on Yamamoto’s side when, in the middle of what was just a fun date, his partner gets overstimulated or overwhelmed by some situation, something they overheard, a text they got, something that was said, and all of a sudden there’s the heat, the pressure, the flood of emotions. They can feel the start of a panic attack coming and they’re trying hard to hold it off but they just can’t, not this time.

Yamamoto is very concerned about his partner. He’s super tuned in on them and the only thing in his mind is getting them someplace quieter, safer feeling for them, and making sure they’re okay. He’ll take their hand and he’s whispering or speaking really softly, trying to make his voice very gentle and soothing. He’s asking if they’re okay to walk or if they need him to piggy back them. If they can’t answer, Yamamoto will plain out just pick up his partner and he’ll carry them to a quiet area where they can sit – a park bench where nobody else is really around, the side of a hill by the river far enough away from the foot traffic that his partner’s state isn’t going to be noticed by most.

His first priority is making sure his partner, now that they’re sitting and are in a place that’s a bit more quiet or a bit safer feeling for them, is not physically hurt in any way. He’s visually checking them over, his hands gentle on their skin as he turns their arms side to side, brushes their hair back to look for any possible scrapes or scratches, things along those lines.

“Nothing hurts body wise? It just hurts inside?” he double-checks with his partner. Once they nod, he sighs a little, never taking his eyes off them before he wraps them up in his arms, pressing their face into his chest. “It’s okay. I got you. Cry it out as much as you need to. I’m not going anywhere.”

Ryohei

Ryohei in the face of a partner’s panic attack? Absolutely useless, really. Ryohei loves his partner, there’s no doubt about that, but when it comes to handling big emotions, particularly negative ones, Ryohei isn’t the best at doing that. He’s not prone to those big, negative emotions. Sure, he feels sad sometimes, but he tends to push it down or use it to motivate him to surpass his limits, to become better. He’s got a temper and knows anger, but again, it’s something he changes into a feeling of motivation. He’s not going to be able to connect well to his partner’s stress, frustrations, or large negative emotions.

I think he definitely tries his best. Ryohei puts his all into supporting and caring for his partner. Even before the panic attack happened, when it was just his partner struggling with their emotions or situations that were overwhelming to them, he’s doing everything he can to support them and cheer them on. He’s being endlessly positive and refuses to let them see any frustration or negativity from him. He’s pointing out everything they’re doing well; he’s telling them he’s proud of them. He’s offering his shoulder to lean on and encouraging them to tell him anything he can do to help. He’s giving it his all.

But his all isn’t really cutting it. His partner still, due to some little thing just breaking the camel’s back, gets hit hard with a panic attack out of nowhere and boy, does it freak Ryohei the fuck out. Legit, Ryohei gets scared. He doesn’t know how to handle this; he doesn’t really fully get what’s going on. His partner is melting down, they’re crying, they’re hyperventilating, they’re just spiraling out of control.

Ryohei is really paralyzed for a moment. His brain just stops for a moment. God, there’s something that breaks in him, even if just for a moment, seeing someone he cares about in such a state. Normally, he could just fight whatever caused his loved ones harm. He can just use his muscles, his fighting spirit, and get rid of the problem. But he can’t fight a panic attack. It’s simply impossible.

He’s a little all over the place. He’s a little panicked too. He doesn’t know what to say so he’s just telling them to calm down, that they’re okay. He’s giving all the platitudes and support that he’s already given. He keeps asking, over and over and over, what’s wrong and the harder it becomes for his partner to really answer, the louder his questions get.

Ryohei is going to make any panic attack his partner has a little worse, honestly, in how he reacts to it. It’s part of why I do believe that Ryohei really isn’t a great match for someone who has the sort of mental illnesses that leaves them susceptible or prone for panic attacks or big bouts of anxiety.

Lambo

While not quite to the levels of someone like Ryohei or Hibari, Lambo doesn’t really deal with a partner’s panic attack exceptionally well either. Or well at all, to be honest.

Lambo is a loving partner, but he’s not always the most observant or perceptive partner. He can be a little self-centered in a lot of ways and though he wants and does his best to spoil his partner and give them all kinds of love, support, and affection, he’s not always paying the closest attention to all the little things about their lives, the littlest subtleties of how they express themselves, the little things that suggest they’re hiding something or putting up a happy front. Those are all things that, unless they’re very obvious and in his face, Lambo won’t always pick up on.

Because of this, his partner’s panic attack is coming out of nowhere to Lambo. It’s like one second they’re completely fine and then the next they’re sobbing and melting down on him. It freaks him out and he falls into panic himself. He keeps saying sorry over and over, convinced that it must have been something he said. He’s flustered, his hands fluttering around. He’s almost touching them and then he’s pulling away as it occurs to him that he should find them a handkerchief. He’s a little all over the place because there seems, in his mind, about a million things he should be doing at the moment to comfort his partner and make everything okay.

He either digs up a handkerchief out of his pocket or finds the nearest thing to Kleenex, whether its actual tissues or even just a roll of toilet paper and he’s pressing it into their hand. He can see they’re crying hard; there’s a lot of snot, there’s some drooling. As someone prone to huge crying fits, even as he grows, he knows how uncomfortable that can feel and he imagines they have to want to clean themselves up.

“Come now, kitten. Dry your eyes. It’ll be okay, I promise,” he’ll be saying as he pats their head, their shoulders, tries to hug them. “I’m so sorry! I’ll do better!”

Hibari

Yeah, no. This is a hard no when it comes to Hibari. Plain out and out, capital letters needed, NO.

Much like Gokudera, and even to a further degree, Hibari has very clear boundaries about what he will deal with when it comes to relationships with others and especially within a romantic relationship. He expects his partner to be able to handle their own shit, to deal with their emotions in ways that are either healthy or seem okay within how Hibari views the world. That is their responsibility.

Honestly, in some situations, I can see Hibari walking in on his partner having a panic attack and just turning around and leaving, giving them the respect of letting them get themselves together and under control without having someone else witness it all. To him, that is truly a sign of respect and it is a compassionate response from him, in his opinion.

There are also situations where, if his partner is melting down in public, just going completely out of control, I can also see Hibari walking up and kind of gently just smacking them upside the head with his tonfa. It’s not enough to do any serious damage but they can feel it. With all the command he can put behind his words, which with Hibari is a lot, he’s going to tell them to calm down. “Get a hold of yourself. This is a pathetic look for you. I don’t recall having any pathetic herbivores in my life.”

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kumasakka · 4 months ago

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Hii! May I request domestic moment headcanons for an established relationship between reader and Gokudera? ❤️

.𖥔 ݁ ˖ ❝ 𝐁𝐈𝐆𝐆𝐄𝐒𝐓 𝐓𝐒𝐔𝐍𝐃𝐄𝐑𝐄 ! ❞

⋆.˚ 𝐏𝐀𝐈𝐑𝐈𝐍𝐆. g.hayato x reader .

⋆.˚ 𝐒𝐔𝐌𝐌𝐀𝐑𝐘. general headcanons about an established relationship between our biggest tsundere and our lovely reader which is you of course .

⋆.˚ 𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐃𝐂𝐎𝐔𝐍𝐓. ~0.65 .

⋆.˚ 𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐓𝐄𝐍𝐓. fluff. f!reader. self - made au ! spoiler - free. safe for minors! crappy writing. kinda short asf. gokudera may seem ooc. no idea if I met the condition of domestic moments — actually I think I missed terribly. please forgive me dear anon </3

no.1 biggest tsundere ever existing in the katekyo hitman reborn universe. but what should I say, no shaming or no shame because if you tell him that he'll deny those outrageous accusations. how dare YOU call him tsundere? like, he would never (secretly doesn't mind cause it's you, shhhh).

Gokudera is the kind of person who gets easily angered and if someone messes with you, he'll send them straight to hell. no joke. yes serious. I swear to GOD if he sees one hair missing, hell will break out.

oh my god. you know what, Gokudera is actually possessive (+little bit obsessive). he hates sharing, he also wants to be your number one, because you are his first place (erm). he's sending death glares everywhere, and when your classmate asked for a pen, he will not be spared from the heated up stare.

this is a opposite attracts relationship. compared to him, you're lowkey chill and fun to hangout with. not an overly sunshine person, but not exactly a moon person. probably the star person.

by the way if you don't understand something in school, make sure to tell him. he will help you out of course. study sessions are HOURS long, that is if you don't mind. gokudera will try his best to shorten those hours if you're complaining though.

not to forget, he probably chills only at your place because your parents are super kind to him and his apartment is kinda empty, so he likes your place a lot. but if you two want some time alone, you're at his house.

I imagine that you two often have movie nights, watching movies all night even though you have school tomorrow. gokudera just to love wrapping his arm around you. as soon as he noticed that you fell asleep, he'll quietly turn off the tv, because he wants to watch the rest with you awake.

you're his background, so make sure that you have a pretty picture of him on your screen.

the type of boyfriend who is thirty minutes early for your date. that's actually so sweet because you sometimes try to be earlier, yet you always find him waiting for you.

one time while he was waiting for you, a girl spoke to him to ask for his number but he automatically turned 180 and began yapping about how beautiful you are and how he could never cheat on you while also showing off his wallpaper. and then you caught her quickly walking away, thinking he was some kind of freaky stalker. you know how embarrassed he was when you brought up the topic, only telling you of course he told her how amazing you are.

there are moments in your relationship where he actually is very calm, watching you closely. hell, he has a notebook where he writes every little detail about you.

girl, you're perfect. in his eyes you're the most perfect girl in the world. there is not a second where he thought otherwise even if you two have an argument, even if he thinks you're annoying sometimes. negative thoughts about you perish as soon as they came.

tsuna or you? he doesn't know actually. the most difficult question he ever had. but after years into your sweet, sweet, sweet relationship, he'd eventually choose you. trust. all those fanfics where he chose tsuna is fake (lowkey). just keep in mind that he'd rather die than betraying you OR tsuna (his second crush).

uri likes you a lot - his box animal is like him. that'd explain why uri hangs all over you. and sometimes he's jealous. sometimes is everytime.

bonus ! remember when a boy asked for your number but ran away because he saw some devil behind you? it was him.

oh! don't forget when someone threatened you and gokudera covered your eyes with one hand while punching that punk with his other hand.

a/n's note — DOUBLE UPDATE BECAUSE I CAN AND SORRY AGAIN FOR NOT FULLFILLING WHAT ANON EXPECTED !!!!

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